3 Principles That Parents Should Have For Children

Parents must understand these 3 principles if they want to develop a confident and socially strong child.

If you want to develop a self-confident and socially strong child, you must understand these 3 principles

Good social interaction and strong self-confidence are the keys to a person’s success

Smart parents, know how to cultivate children's self-confidence and social skills from an early age

As the saying goes, "you get more help, but you lose your way."

I don’t know if you have noticed that those lively and cheerful in life

People who are optimistic and confident tend to be more likely to succeed

They are always easier to adapt to the new environment, can easily establish a close and mutually supportive relationship with the people around them, so they can also get more help and support

Conversely, if a person is shy, does not know how to express, and is not very popular, then he will often be pushed aside

Even if he is full of talents, he is always buried

It’s the same for kids

Those children who are lively and cheerful are often more popular and easier to like

I watched a video some time ago, in which an old grandpa celebrated his birthday

Many people in the family were waiting to congratulate grandpa on his birthday, but before anyone could say anything, one of grandpa’s little grandsons took the initiative to sing a birthday song to grandpa, and when he finished he gave the old man a mouthful.

The children's actions not only made the atmosphere of the whole family life, but even the stiff old man was also very happy, looking at the little grandson with love.

To be honest, I am a very shy person myself

Even though I have been working for so many years, I still don’t know how to deal with people.

So many times, the things that should not be missed are missed, and the things that should be owned are also given up on their own initiative.

Even asking for directions on the road is extremely difficult for me

But my second treasure is very confident

I always make some good friends every time I go out to play

At school, no matter what activities you have, as long as you are interested, you will choose to sign up

Occasionally I don’t get good grades. I haven’t even spoken to comfort him. The kid figured it out by himself and soon he was able to cheer up.

The reason for giving these examples is to show everyone

A person with strong social skills, self-confidence, and cheerfulness will usually lead a better life

As parents, if we want to cultivate children’s social skills and self-confidence from an early age, we must understand these three principles

1. People with low self-esteem always suffer, self-confidence is king

Some time ago, I saw such a scene downstairs in the community

A little boy was riding a bicycle and playing quietly by himself when suddenly a little girl appeared

This little girl, obviously very confident and lively, just listened to her talking to the little boy

"Hello, boy"

"Come here"

"Can I play with you"

Facing the little girl enthusiastically struck up a conversation, the introverted boy was at a loss for a while, and finally escaped.

In many cases, it is precise because of insufficient self-confidence that we missed many opportunities

If the little boy can be more confident, then he can not only make a good friend but also exercise his English with the girl

In life, those with low self-esteem are actually at a disadvantage

When I was in college, there was a classmate in my class who had very good academic performance and was very sincere and kind, but he was very inferior.

Classmates recommended her to do the class, she shrank and didn't even dare to go up to the podium. In the end, everyone had to choose someone else.

In group discussions, she always speaks eloquently, but she stopped cooking as soon as she got on stage and couldn’t say a word.

In life, such people are not rare

They are always worried that they are not good enough, afraid of others talking about themselves, and even afraid that their excellence will be discovered.

I always like to stay in the corner, but my heart is eager for others to see myself

So it’s not a happy life

As parents, we must cultivate children’s self-confidence from an early age

Because only confident people can be positive, only confident people can bravely show themselves, and thus can live a happier and happier life

2. The more certain the parents are, the more confident the children will be

There used to be a boy who liked singing

But one day when he was full of confidence, in front of his classmates and teachers, he sang a song that he thought was very skilled

However, he did not get the applause and praise he expected. Instead, he was criticized by the teacher for pentatonic insufficiency and not being suitable for singing at all.

The boy was very sad and dejected, he returned home crying and told his mother

As a result, his mother touched his head and told him

"Baby, I don't agree with the teacher, I think you are very talented in music, very suitable for singing"

"You will succeed, trust mom"

So under the affirmation and encouragement of his mother, the little boy regained his confidence and insisted on practicing singing every day.

Many years later, this little boy became a very famous opera artist, often performing in concert halls in Italy

This boy is Rigo Carrossell, the king of singers.

For children, parental affirmation and encouragement are very important

Only when their parents approve and accept them will they become self-confident, feel safe and face the challenges and tribulations of life

Will be more confident

3. The vast majority of self-confidence is "cheated"

In life, we often find that self-confident children are not how good they are.

Maybe they are ordinary, but they think they are great from the bottom of their hearts

So there is a confident charm all over my body

Such a person, over time, will give people a very good feeling

Actually, many people’s self-confidence is "lied" out

Especially for children, the more you praise them, the more confident they are

Psychological research believes that a person usually has to go through the three stages of determination, pretending, and becoming before they can truly form their own thoughts and behavior patterns.

The so-called fixed as is assumed to be

For example, if your child is quite a singer, you can tell him "Mom believes you will become."

I should always encourage him, praise him, let him recognize from the heart that he is such a person

When a child has such a concept, he will work hard in this direction

At this time, it’s the stage of pretending to be. As a parent, you still have to spare no effort to praise the child.

Often praise him and pretend he can do it

For example, in order to become a singer, children practice singing every day

At this time, you should always tell him: "This level is getting higher and higher, it's just a singer"

The more you pretend, the more confident your child will be.

Finally, we have reached the stage of positioning

At this time the child has unconsciously formed his behavior pattern

He has been very firm and confident in his recognition of himself. In his heart, he will feel that he is such a person.

It’s the same with cultivating one’s self-confidence, praise, and encouraging more

4. The great philosopher Socrates once said

"The so-called education is to truly guide a person's heart and help him be like himself"

And the protagonist Augie in the movie "Miracle Boy" also said such a line

"No one is ordinary, everyone deserves everyone to stand up and applaud for him."

As parents, we must learn to discover the bright spots of children

Accept him, praise him, let him gradually build his self-confidence and have free and easy social skills

Only in this way, he will have more sunshine, flowers, and praise in his future life, and he will become more outstanding.

So as to have a better future

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