Child Is Not Close To The Mother If The Child Has These Manifestations

Many parents complain in their hearts that their children are like "white-eyed wolves" when they grow up, and they have no affinity with their mothers at all, while other children's children are always so sensible and have a good connection with their mothers, which makes the mother's I feel a little unbalanced.

But if you want to put the child back in the stomach and remake it, it is very unrealistic. Time will not go back, and frustration will not help. These old mothers should be more regretful that they did not guide their children more when they were young, and cultivate their feelings with their children. All the reasons for incompatibility are on their own heads.

So, in fact, most of the children who are not close to their mothers when they grow up must have had symptoms when they were young. If they could find out and guide them in time at that time, then there would not be so many things when they grow up.

Those Children Who Are Not Close To Their Mothers Have Two Characteristics From Childhood

1. I Don't Like To Communicate With My Mother

When I was young, my mother was a very fierce person in my heart, so I didn't dare to get close to my mother, and I didn't like to talk to my mother. When I grew up, it was even more difficult to communicate with my mother, and I encountered something unhappy. I dare not tell my mother that I am not very close to my mother.

Therefore, as a mother, you should be kind and kind to your child when you are a child, so that the child will dare to communicate with you more. Love needs to be expressed, not just by actions. Ignore your love for him, so the main language communication is very necessary.

2. There Is Very Little "Physical Contact" With The Mother

When I was a child, some children didn't know how to develop a very individual appearance. They were very repulsive to have close physical contact with others, and my mother was no exception. Happy, reluctant, etc. These signs are not taken care of by the mother when the child is young. She thinks that the child is angry and does not take measures to solve it.

So that the child slowly rejects the mother from the bottom of his heart and is not willing to physically contact and communicate with the mother, and slowly the child begins to dislike the mother and even begins to reject it.

Especially on weekdays, if most of what the child shows to the mother is strong hostility, such as slandering, beating, and scolding the mother. Then these behaviors are enough to prove that in the child's heart, the mother's image is not very good, and the status is not important. In this way, when you grow up, you will inevitably have an estrangement from your mother, and it is almost impossible to get close.

How Should The Mother Guide And Correct When These Signs Appear When The Child Is Young?

1. Language Is The Bridge Of Communication

There is no love without verbal communication. It is one thing to do anything, and it is another to communicate. As a bridge of communication, mothers and children should communicate more and do not wait for an insurmountable gap to be established before building a bridge.

When the child is young, no matter how busy he is, he still needs to take time out to accompany the child, take the initiative to communicate with the child, and let the child slowly open his heart to you. Such a relationship is very rare when the child grows up without being close to the mother.

2. "Skin Kiss" Can Bring Closer Parent-Child Relationship

Mothers should have close physical contact with their children, stroking their children's heads more, and giving them massages to help promote the blood circulation of the children's bodies and enhance their immunity. The other is to interact with the child more, holding hands, face to face, etc., so that the child can feel the contact of the mother's body and give the child a full sense of security.

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