Girls Have These Three Characteristics When They Are Young

The little girl thinks in everyone's heart that she likes pink, likes to wear skirts, likes to cry when she is bullied and likes to find her mother.

Please, it's already 2022, okay? Stop telling me that girls should like pink. My niece likes blue. Is there any problem?

These characteristics of little girls do not mean that they will grow up to be "tomboys", but they may be great.

Girls have these three characteristics when they are young, they are not the "bad ailments" that adults think, don't stop them

My lovely little niece liked blue when she was a child, toy cars, she didn't stick to her mother to buy dolls, and she didn't have the patience to help dolls make clothes. Once I asked my sister-in-law if she was worried that her child did not have a girl character?

As a result, my sister-in-law’s answer directly thundered me: "Who said that a girl must have a girl character, as long as she can live out herself, her life is considered successful, and your brother and I are only responsible for raising her and making her happy. "

Yes, my sister-in-law has had a very high level of consciousness recently, and I don’t know if it was influenced by me, but I’m really happy, at least I don’t have to worry about my niece’s growth.

These three characteristics of girls indicate that children are smarter:

1) There are too many words to stop

It’s impossible for my niece to use the word “tuberculosis”. Every morning, I can hear my niece’s phone call before I get up. Sometimes I’m too sleepy, so I gave my son this difficult task of chatting. 

Children talk a lot, so they can exercise their language skills and logical thinking. As a parent, don’t always interrupt the child when the child speaks.

If every time your child chats with you, he just shuts up. It won’t take long for the child to have low self-esteem or even autism. When he grows up he wants to express that he can’t grasp the point of a career, and he can’t express himself clearly.

2) The destructive king at home

Girls with strong destructive power may be considered bad behavior by their parents. After all, most people's requirements for girls are calm and quiet. The child demolishes the house or destroys the toy just to express his curiosity.

Parents can learn their children's intentions by observing and chatting with their children, so as to cultivate their children's interests.

3) Pay attention to your own dress

Girls will like small flowers or butterfly-like headdresses, and my colleague’s little daughter will secretly wipe her mother’s lipstick. At this time, parents don’t worry, don’t think it is abnormal if they have a little intention.

Parents can do this before the child’s self-awareness is gradually formed

As little girls grow up, parents will have more to worry about girls. In addition to normal education and guidance, parents should pay more attention to the development of their personalities.

Now the unhappy children are at two extremes. They may be particularly selfish. Parents treat their children as little princesses and cannot be rejected for everything. As long as there is something wrong with them, the whole family will suffer.

This type of child is mainly due to excessive pampering by adults. Are there few children who are miserably spoiled by doting? Do parents really bear the heart to harm their children like this?

There is also a type of girl who has no sense of security in their hearts. They have closed themselves in space from small to large, and are afraid of contacting the outside world. The first way they think of when encountering things is to escape, and they keep escaping during their long growth.

This type of children is lacking love due to the negligence of the parents. The parents may be due to work, or it may be due to other people in the family who need to take care of them.

For a girl, there are really not many requirements. It is a greeting from parents when they go home and a sentence of concern when they encounter problems. Compared with the car and house, girls pay more attention to feelings.

In the process of accompanying your children to grow up, don't be led by your own inherent thoughts. Every child has his own personality, and every child has his own heart. No need to deliberately correct or think too much.

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