How To Cultivate Children's Sense Of Security?
Children with a sense of security will have these three characteristics, independence, self-confidence, and kindness.
A child's growth requires a sense of security, which can only be provided by their own parents. Because we are the first object that children can attach to, and only when they are with their parents, will children have a sufficient sense of security in learning?
How To Make Children Feel Safe? As A Parent, You Must Do Three Things Well!
1. Learn Communication Skills
Communication is a way to listen to a child's demands and understand the real needs of a child's heart, but this kind of very simple communication seems to be difficult for many students and parents to do. Usually, we often see children crying for no reason. Many parents do not have the patience to appease their children, but use scolding to solve it.
In fact, children cry, not only because of hunger or shock but because they present their needs. If parents can listen to their children's ideas patiently and actively communicate with them, do we need to rage? Can a child's self-esteem be hurt?
2. Learn To Encourage And Recognize Children
In fact, in the child's heart, even if the whole world doesn't know me, as long as the parents approve it, then the world is complete and there is the power to move forward.
Children who are often beaten not only suffer inwardly but also live in an inferiority complex all their lives because of their lack of self-confidence and sense of security. They always think they are not good enough for the world.
It is very rare that parents can trust without reservation. In this way, no matter how big the problems are encountered in the development of children, they still have the courage to face the difficulties. He must have thought in his heart that no matter what the time, my parents are my strongest backing.
3. Do Not Intimidate Children
When I was a kid, I used to hear, "If you don't obey, let the big bad wolf take you away." "If you cry again, Mommy will throw you out!" "If you still fail the exam, don't come back to see me!"
Threatening a child is the easiest way to destroy your child's sense of security, and as long as you say these things regularly, your child's sense of security will be destroyed. Parents try to encourage their children and do not discipline them in a way that intimidates or threatens them.
Raising a child is not easy, parents must not use the wrong method, the above three methods must be remembered!
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