Insecure Children Like To Be Alone And Withdrawn

Do children also need to feel safe? The answer is yes. Security is a kind of self-perception that comes from the bottom of the heart. Whether adults or children, it is very important to have a sense of security in life. Especially for children, children who do not have enough security are often more introverted and more sensitive to accidents. 

In daily life and interaction with children, parents need to pay attention to observing whether their children feel insecure. Once they find that they have made very insecure behaviors, parents should help them establish as soon as possible. Get this sense of security.

To know whether the child feels safe, you can judge from their sleep situation. Many mothers often complain to their husbands with dark circles that the child always sleeps poorly at night, either crying or waking up suddenly, making himself Didn't sleep well all night.

When they find that their children's sleep quality has become poor, mothers should pay attention when they get along with their children during the day, whether the children have encountered anything that makes them feel afraid, the children are most likely because of the Recalling what happened during the day and being awakened by a nightmare, mothers should comfort their children in a timely manner, and never complain or even scold them loudly when they are half-asleep, this will only make the babies more Scared and more insecure.

I don't know if you have noticed that there are many children around who always like to be alone, and these children are also insecure.

The specific performance is as follows: when there are guests at home, he likes to hide in the room by himself. Even if the guests bring children with him, he still likes to entertain himself and does not want to play with other children. Another manifestation is that These children do not like to go to crowded places, they always feel very uncomfortable in the crowd, silent, unable to integrate into the activities of the crowd.

Children who are insecure are always afraid of losing something, always worried about various changes in the surrounding things, and are also very withdrawn and inferior in character. Such children, when they encounter some unhappy things in life, will cry constantly, which will give mothers a headache.

A child's sense of security needs parents to help him establish and protect it. Every child needs the common care and hug of parents in the process of growing up. In our daily life, let us give children more encouragement and less blame. Don't make kids feel safe.

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