Parents' Attitude That Should Be Avoid In Children

Parents expect to hope their children will become dragons, but they must put an end to these 3 ways, do you agree?

1. Put Down Your So-Called Face To Understand The Child

It is not uncommon for children to see their favorite toys in the mall and then make a fuss to buy them, embarrassing their parents. Parents often do is to pull the child away from the scene management or immediately change face to make the child shut up.

In fact, children do not have to use this toy. We need to guide children in the right way and understand their real needs. If we have extreme behavior, let the children have a rebellious heart, is this the result we want?.

Therefore, we should grasp the child's explosive point, put down our posture, and integrate into the world of educating children as soon as possible. We must learn to give in in time to some of the children's persistence and requirements.

2. Attention To Criticism Methods And Techniques

Children will inevitably do wrong things, no matter how angry the parents are, please try to suppress your anger and criticize the children for paying attention to the methods, so as not to hurt the children's self-esteem.

When criticizing a child, we should clearly tell the child that it is not that I dislike you, but that you have done something wrong and must be corrected in the future.

Parents should also avoid berating their children and try to choose relatively mild phrases, such as "I'm sorry Dad did this to you" and "We're disappointed that you did this."

On the one hand, it shows the parents' expectations for the child, and on the other hand, it is not easy to make the child have negative emotions so that the child is more likely to accept the criticism and education of the parents.

3. Avoid The Tone Of Command

In the process of family education, some parents like to use an authoritative tone to their children, but such unilateral orders will hurt the child's self-esteem and have a negative impact on the child's future development.

Children do things according to their parents' wishes, which not only suppresses the children's nature but also easily leads to timid and cowardly characters. What's more, some children will have a rebellious mentality and adopt a rebellious attitude.

Parents don't care if their kids are interested in things, as long as they think it's bad, they'll stop it immediately and tell their kids NO, this kind of unreserved education makes kids feel like they're not getting it well This behavior can make children feel that their self-esteem has been greatly damaged.

Parents expect to "hope their children will become dragons", but they must put an end to the above 3 education methods!