The Lazier The Mother The More Diligent Her Child

I often hear the elders around me say this sentence. The times are really different now. In the past, one person brought four children, but now four people in the family are surrounding one child.

This sentence is not wrong at all. In those days when the elders had many children, all members of the family except the mother had to go out to work. Nowadays, more and more young parents do not want to continue after giving birth to one child. 

The second child, the third child, the elders retired at home, the parents went home from getting off work, it is indeed a few adults around a child.

We all know that grandparents dote on children, and they are afraid that they will be injured by squatting in everything. The "all-in-one" doting parenting will not only exhaust the adults, but children will be more clumsy than children of the same age. 

Adults may wish to change the way to make themselves lazy and make children diligent.

Children aged 2-3 are the golden period for cultivating various behavioral habits. At this time, mothers can start to "set rules" for them. The first is the problem of children eating by themselves. 

When children start to learn to eat, mothers need to be timely. Let go and let them complete the act of eating by themselves by guiding and encouraging them to step by step. 

It doesn't matter if the clothes, the floor are dirty, or the table is full of food scraps. Children have a strong ability to learn. We must believe that The progress of the children over a period of time will surely surprise you.

When the child is just learning to walk, the strength of the feet is still very weak. Often because of the unstable center of gravity, the walk is crooked. Falls are also common. At this time, mothers must not be too impatient and distressed for their children.

If you can stand up again, don't help, otherwise, it will easily make them develop a strong dependence, and even some individual children will use the "fake fall" behavior to seek comfort, deliberately spoiled, willful, In this case, I don't want to seriously learn to walk.

When children start to consciously pick up their toys and learn to wear clothes, mothers should watch and encourage them patiently. The idea of learning new skills is a very important leap in their growth process.

Parents, let us learn to "let go" together in the process of children's growth, let them become more and more diligent, and let each child become better and better in the process of daily continuous learning.

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