These 6 Things Must Be Done By The Father

In the process of child growth, it is inseparable from the joint education of the father and the mother. The mother always pays more attention to the details, while the father is different. They pay more attention to the control of the overall situation and direction. This shows that the role of the father is very important and indispensable.

In fact, many times, some things in life need the father to accompany the child to complete, which the mother wants to replace and cannot replace, but often in practice, we find that this is not the case. In most families, the important task of educating children is On the mother, the father seems to be only responsible for "making money to support the family". 

As everyone knows, the lack of a father to accompany them to grow together has a great impact on the healthy development of children, and sometimes it is more advantageous for a father to bring a baby.

When chatting with a friend recently, the friend mentioned helplessly: Because of the epidemic, we need to stock up on more goods at home. Originally, my colleague wanted to go, but when he saw his wife was going out, the colleague's 3-year-old baby was clinging to his mother and wanted to go together, of course, my colleague won't let the child go out, so he said to the baby, "There is a virus outside. 

If you are infected, you will die. Be good, wait for your mother to buy things, and go home." But who knows, I heard When the wife said this, the child immediately burst into tears, and while crying, she said, "Let Dad buy it!" Not to mention how many friends were crying and laughing.

It seems that in most families now, it is the mother who accompanies the children for a longer period of time, and even a new term has been coined: widowed parenting. Since there is no mother to invest more energy and time in family life, fathers are often affected by it. Even his own children often say: "I don't know why I have a father."

But the fact is that on the road to educating children, sometimes it is more important for the father to accompany the child than the mother to accompany the child. If the father can accompany the child to do the following, then the child will obviously be more successful in the future!

1. Accompanying Children To Study

"If you don't do homework, the mother is kind and filial to the child. As soon as you do homework, your mother becomes a stepmother." Many mothers have a headache accompanying their children to do homework. Since mothers are the main force in educating children, many mothers consciously take care of them. 

It is a wise choice to help children with their studies, but it is actually a wise choice to let the father accompany the children to do homework. Fathers are generally more rational, not only focusing on the children's right or wrong but focusing on the children's progress. 

It’s not so easy to get angry, and Dad doesn’t have any trivial chores at home, so he doesn’t rush the child, and has more time and patience to explain to the child. When it was affordable, the children wrote their homework. After all, they wanted to play earlier than anyone else.

2. Accompany The Child To Exercise

Mothers have a lot of chores to deal with every day, and they just want to rest when they have free time, so they generally don’t like sports very much, while fathers work dull all day and need to relax when they get home, and fathers are adventurous and physically weak. Stronger than moms, so it's perfect for dads to exercise with their kids.

3. Accompany The Children To Do housework

Many fathers are fussy at home, but fathers have a magic power that can make their children do housework with heartfelt satisfaction, and will take the initiative to ask for it, so fathers should accompany their children to do housework more. 

In the process, fathers can educate their sons to be A man who is responsible and responsible will feel sorry for his wife in the future, while for his daughter, his father can tell her that he will be more independent and strong in the future by doing some housework within his ability from a young age, and he has also set an example for his daughter. Housework, it is not easy to suffer when looking for a partner in the future.

4. Accompany The Children To See The World

In many things, there are differences between men and women, such as vision and pattern, which are related to the social attributes of men and women. Generally, fathers have a larger pattern and wider vision, so fathers should accompany their children to see the world more so that children can learn from it. Life experience, avoid detours in the future.

5. Accompany Children To Experience Professional Life

Due to the different social divisions of labor, although mothers also have their own careers, their professional experience may not be as rich as that of fathers. Therefore, fathers should accompany their children to experience professional life. A certain plan to move towards your chosen goals.

6. Accompany Children To Exercise Logical Thinking Ability

The survey found that logical thinking has a significant impact on children's future learning!

The level of children's grades is often not the gap between talent and hard work, but the gap in logical thinking!

The essential difference between the two is that one is a straight-line distance, which is the shortest; while children with weak logical ability are easy to "take a detour" and need to spend more time to complete learning problems that others can easily solve.

The higher the grade, the more important the logical thinking ability. Students with strong thinking will have more diverse and relatively direct ways of thinking about problems, and the gap will widen.

In these 6 things, mothers, please do not interfere, let the fathers accompany their children to do it so that the children can be better and achieve greater achievements in the future.

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