The Best Way For Parent And Child Communication

In modern society, countless parents and children are faring away due to a lack of communication. Many parents and mothers also take the initiative to complain that they feel that the older their children are. The less they can find common topics. Sometimes I want to sit down and chat with my child occasionally, and there is only an awkward atmosphere between each other.

In fact, if parents don't pay attention to maintaining good parent-child communication from their children's infancy. once there is a communication gap, it will definitely be very difficult to find a common topic later.

So Here Are The Perfect Rules For Communication That You Should Know!

1. The Law of Listening and Responding

The first step in parent-child communication is listening. From the moment children are born. They have been very curious about the world around them. They may just say a few words, and they can't help but ask their parents "why".

As parents, we must have an open attitude towards the series of questions raised by our children. Listen more to the children’s questions and respond in a timely manner.

Just ask a lot of questions and let the child continue to talk, make fewer comments and play the role of a listener as much as possible. When you want to supplement your speech, use "you" more to express your consideration for the other party. And less use "I" to state your own point of view.

As a parent, you can also judge whether the theme is based on the child's interest points, and you can consciously bring the points of interest to them. The children will feel that the parent is getting along with them in a tolerant and listening attitude. and the parent-child communication will be better. Easy to last for a long time.

Celebrity showed a particularly high level of patience when dealing with her child, the king. Once the child raised a question, she would listen to the question attentively, and then give a timely response. Even if she couldn't hear it clearly, she would take the initiative to hope that he would say it again. This kind of patience is something that many of us parents deserve to learn.

2. Parents Can Also Share Their Own

We must not think that the affairs of adults are the affairs of adults, and children have no reason to know.

In fact, when parents and mothers begin to take the initiative to share their feelings and feelings with their children. And to exchange their views on everything with them. The children will clearly realize that my parents are willing to share with me.

Children are also very direct in expressing their good feelings. And they will definitely share their feelings. Feelings and opinions with their parents with the same desire to share. The bridge between parent-child communication is not as difficult as we think.

3. Good At Using Body Language

Really good use of body language in communication is definitely great wisdom.

The purpose of using body language in our communication with our children. Is to let the children feel that their parents are paying attention to their words. And show a state of wanting to chat seriously.

Generally, the height of the child is relatively low. So parents need to squat down properly and have eye gaze or communication with the child. In addition to listening attentively, if the child has an emotional need. 

Parents can hold the child's hand or hug them, expressing a sense of communication and caring through close physical contact. Children can feel the willingness of their parents to tend to them. A sense of happiness will arise spontaneously in their hearts.

If we want to help children improve their abilities and facilitate communication, the most important thing is to always stand at the starting point of their needs and consider their ideas like this. Then when we put ourselves in the child's shoes in this way, we can well understand the differences in perspectives and habits between adults and children.

More use of body language is actually to use the expressions that children are accustomed to building communication. And the corresponding effect must be very good.

4. Cherish The Time Alone With Your Children

Because most parents have jobs, we often ignore the need to be alone with our children. In fact, being alone does not require us to work hard to match a time. Often some fragmented time between two people is enough to shorten the distance between each other.

For example, on the way to and from school. The time for bedtime stories every day, etc. There is a lot of room for play. Seize this time and communicate with the child calmly. The parent-child relationship efforts we have made will definitely be more effective with less effort.

5. Always Trust And Support Your Child

This is also a principled requirement for parents because no matter what age children grow up. They will always hope that their closest people can understand their hearts. Therefore, when they speak, we should use a trusting tone to communicate. Instead of denying the views that children want to express.

Only when children gradually accumulate the feeling of being trusted. Can they be more confident on the road to growth and can handle the relationship between parents and children more freely.

6. Can Honestly Admit Mistakes To Children

Because there are often inconsistencies between us and our children, we have long been accustomed to imposing our own opinions on our children. And even assimilating it into a fact.

But sometimes, in the colorful vision of children, there may not be a standard answer. When they have their own reasons and can justify their views, we need to allow multiple possibilities.

If there is a quarrel between us because of a "misunderstanding", parents must also learn to let go of their posture and sincerely apologize to their children. A parent who has the courage to admit mistakes and explore new starting points for a conversation must be more lovable than a stubborn, bossy parent.

Conclusion

No matter how best the perfect communication rule in the world is. It is not as good as parents trying it out and adapting it and applying it flexibly according to the actual situation. I believe that as long as we are willing to make efforts. Our children will definitely feel our changes. And slowly use the same kindness and warmth to help each other promote a bridge of good communication!

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