Why Do Children Neglect Themselves?

When children are abused outside, most parents scold or coax them. However, rarely think about calming down, listening attentively, understanding and accepting the child's inner feelings and thoughts. 

In fact, when a child experiences setbacks, complaints, and failures, what he or she needs most is not comfort, criticism, or lessons. But a man worthy of trust, let him cry, listen to him, understand him, accept him.

Children, like adults, feel important, valuable, and respected when their parents listen to them. On the other hand, they also respect their parents and are willing to share their thoughts with them.

The mother of a teenager ran for help in tears, saying that it had been more than half a year, and her son almost didn't want to say a word to himself at home. He was so sad that he didn't know what he had done wrong.

I have seen many troubled parents of teenage children. The source of their distress is the inability to communicate with their children. When children are young, they are used to educating children with the authority of their parents. Now that the child had grown up, he didn't care about his parents at all. Parents find that they don't know what their children are thinking, and their education is totally unworkable.

One thing these parents have in common in their interactions with their children is that they talk too much and listen too little. Each family has its own way of constant communication, which is formed when children live with their parents from an early age.

When children are young, they are willing to tell parents about their inner thoughts, but parents don't have to listen; when they are growing up, they are not used to telling their parents about themselves, and parents suddenly find that their children have it. be a stranger.

The key to parent-child communication is listening. Many children are reluctant to tell their parents what they think because their parents are arbitrary. Often, once a child starts talking, parents rush to conclusions and teach them a lesson, which makes them feel bored and naturally stop talking.

Listening has the effect of purifying the mind. listening is the key to successful parent-child communication. Therefore, before expecting their children to be obedient, parents must patiently listen to their children with a loving heart!

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